Showing posts with label Nettie. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Nettie. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

22.5 Weeks

K so last time I posted a picture, I was 20.5 weeks along.  Conveniently, I'm wearing the same shirt this week for my picture, so maybe differences in size will be easier to see?  I dunno, whatevs.

Aside from looking somewhat shocked in this picture, I think I look a little bigger.  Feeling slower each day, for sure.  And I can feel that dealing with tantrums (which have become a daily occurrence :( ) or dragging screaming child from the park or store is really hard on me.  I probably shouldn't be doing that sort of thing though.

Speaking of the screaming child, I should probably do a little update about her.  And really, for the most part she's adorable and sweet.  She's just reached that age where if something frustrates her, even a tiny bit, she flips out and can't control her emotions.  We're working on it, and have become very familiar with timeout.  This past Sunday we got to church and sat through sacrament meeting in the foyer because she was angry that she couldn't go to nursery immediately.  Or well, I sat in the foyer, Tucker took himself and Nettie into the clerks office for timeout.  I would say it's embarrassing that she acts like that, but I mean, she's just barely two years old, and a majority of kids go through similar phases.  We've just gotta get through it.

But really, she's mostly just a sweetheart.  When I ask her where the babies are she pats my tummy, though I don't know if she quite understands exactly what that means.  A few weeks back we decided to start leaving the side of her crib down (with a big box pushed against the side) so she can get out on her own in the mornings.  This has actually worked pretty good, the only downside is she comes out about 5-10 times after we've put her down for the night asking for different things.  She knows if she asks to go potty when she gets up that I'll oblige and won't just send her back to bed, so that's usually the request.

Lately her favorite tv show is Jake and the Neverland Pirates, which I'm ok with, cause it's not annoying at all like some little kid shows are.  She even understands what Halloween is because of the show, so if she still likes pirates by October, I'll probably try and put together a pirate costume for her.

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

General Updates (because I can't think of a more clever title)

I realized I haven't actually done a post for about a month now, so I figured I'd take advantage of Nettie's vaccine induced exhaustion and write a quick little update for those of you that read this.

I'll start with Nettie since she's the cutest and most interesting of our little Smith clan.  She's 9 weeks old now, which is kind of insane when I stop to think about it.  At the risk of sounding cliche, it feels like we've already had her.  But what a little blessing she is!  She's started "talking" to me sometimes when I talk to her, and she's also smiling on a more consistent basis; though, if she doesn't feel like it, she won't, no matter how long I make ridiculous faces at her.  She also can hold her head up pretty good... well, pretty good in comparison to not at all.  There's still a fair amount of bobble-headedness going on, but she likes to be held up right so she can look around at stuff.

The stats from her appointment yesterday are:
Height: 22"
Weight: Right under 12lbs
Head Circumference: Hmm... I don't actually remember.  We think her head looks huge, but apparently it's right in the same percentile as her height and weight.

And speaking of percentiles, she's basically between the 50th and 75th percentile on everything.  A fairly average baby I guess.  She got three shots and one oral vaccine at the appointment.  Needless to say, she did not like getting jabbed in her thighs, and I don't blame her.  The cute little tears were streaming down her face even before I had a chance to pick her up.  And when Tucker and I took off the bandaids at home later, the painful scream and tears started again, which made me cry (something that I've never done in relation to her).  I just felt so bad that I couldn't make her feel better.  But for the most part, she slept all day yesterday and is now asleep (with a small fever) again this morning.  Poor baby :(  I just kept telling her it was for her own good; hopefully she understands.

I've been cleared to start exercising, which I am itching to start doing.  Why haven't I started already?  Last week was crazy busy, and so far this week, I've felt too bad leaving Nettie alone cause she's feeling pretty crummy from her shots.  Hopefully tomorrow she'll be doing well enough that I can head down to the gym and sign up, cause let's face it, I look pretty gross.  Haven't exactly been the most disciplined person when it comes to eating or exercising since we got married, and it definitely shows.  I want to try to get back to what I weighed in high school... or at least my first year of college.

Also, I started taking birth control pills about a month ago (because that's when I was told to start taking them back while we were still in the hospital), and since that first week, my milk production has gone down.  So far down that we have had to feed Nettie a bottle of formula a couple times a day because I simply don't have anything to give her.  While I'm not opposed to formula, it's kind of frustrating that I'm not able to satisfy my baby's hunger.  I asked her pediatrician about it yesterday, and she said that my pills probably have the wrong mix of hormones in them for a nursing mother.  More than likely I'm going to stop taking them and opt for a more... uh... direct form of birth control and see if that helps with milk production.

Tucker has pretty much finished up his lit review (which is basically 30ish pages of him summarizing stuff that other people have written about similar stuff that he did his research on) and should be starting his thesis soon.  He also needs to get his resume updated so he can start sending it out to companies.  Kind of crazy to think that we're less than five months (potentially) away from having a real job.  Dr. Drake keeps telling Tucker that he should take a job with Glambia, a company in Twin Falls, Idaho........................................................................................ yeah.  Not exactly thrilled with the location, but apparently she thinks they would be a great company to work for and thinks that Tucker would fit into the lab there really well.  Also, the guy that runs the lab is a Bishop, and I'm sure many of the other workers there are Mormon as well, so maybe she just thinks that we need to be surrounded by Mormons, haha, I don't know.  We're not ruling it out as a possibility, but we'd really like to stay on the east coast (could always go work for Campbell's soup in Camden(?), New Jersey: worst city in America 2008!)

I can't think of anything else off the top of my head that I'd need to include in this.  It's probably already way longer than most of you will want to read.  My bad.  Oh!  At the beginning of next month I'm going to be flying out to Phoenix for a week long visit which I'm pretty excited about.  Flying with Nettie will be a bit interesting I'm sure, but we'll survive.  Lots of people do it.

And to Lindsey: One way or another I'll be in Phoenix for Christmas this year.  You can count on it.

2 Monday Pictures

August 1, 2011
Nettie got to borrow this new awesome swing from Aunt Katie.  It's pretty much our favorite thing now.


August 8, 2011
The aftermath of the two-month check up.  Shots are hard :(

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Monday Picture

Ok, so this week's picture isn't technically from yesterday (even though I did take some last night), it's from this morning.  I couldn't help but pick this picture, though.  She's so dang cute in it!

July 25, 2011

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Monday Picture(s)

I didn't post a picture last week, but I did take one.  I just never really think about getting onto my blog to do that kind of thing.  But I did think about it this morning, so voila! 

July 11, 2011
Tucker was at a conference the first half of this week so Mommy decided she would sleep in the bed (I've slept on the couch in the front room with Nettie since she was born), and so when I fed Nettie and got up, she stayed asleep and it was super cute.


July 18, 2011
First trip to Walmart = Success!  Also, first ride in our jogging stroller.  She did pretty good.  I think she's a bit on the small side for it still (it's not recommended for use until they're 6 months old... yeeeeaah.), but it was fun to push her around and have everybody smile at her.  And not gonna lie, like 6 people either talked to me and Tucker or made a comment in passing to me about her as we were walking through the store.  Even the general public thinks Nettie is adorable!  Who can blame them though?

Thursday, July 7, 2011

:)

She smiled for reals this morning.  Adorable.  No pictures yet.  Working on it though.

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Happy 1 month birthday!

Nettie's a month old today.  Crazy.  That went way too fast.  Or maybe it just seems that way because my days and nights sort of blended together for awhile. 



Anyways, went to the doctor this afternoon (and left right before it started to downpour, thank goodness) and she's doing really well.  Gained a full pound since her last appointment (which was 2 weeks ago) and now weighs in at 9lbs 12oz.  Little chunker.  Although... she still doesn't look all that chubby.  Getting there, just not there yet.  She's also now 21inches long (a gain of 3/4").  Percentile-wise she's right about 50% with everything.  Average baby, yay!

She hasn't quite started smiling yet.  I think she's really close though.  Every now and then she'll get this cute look on her face that's like right on the verge of a smile.  I'm sure when she does smile it'll be adorable though.

Also, Katie let me borrow her Moby wrap this past weekend cause I couldn't figure out my sling.  Holy crap, love this thing!  Used it for the first time a couple days ago and as soon as I had it tied on Nettie was zonked out.  Even as we speak, she's strapped to my chest (sleeping).  Awesome!  I have hands to do things with again.... well.... at least when I'm holding her, that is.

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Nettie's Blessing

In church this past Sunday we did Nettie's baby blessing.  It was a super special experience (made better by the fact that she decided to sleep through sacrament meeting) and all the guys in Tucker's family excluding Sam were in the circle, and my parents made the trip back out here so that my dad would be able to participate as well.  Katie (my sister-in-law extraordinaire) was much more clever than me and wrote down the blessing as Tucker was giving it.  I would never have thought to do that, but I'm really glad that she did because this will be something sweet to show Nettie later on in life.

I didn't think to get a group picture of everyone while we were at the church building (mostly because I think everyone was hungry and wanted to get out of there to eat lunch), but we did get some group shots later at Shad and Katie's house, so hopefully Barbi will upload those soon so that I can post them.  I did take some pictures of Nettie in her dress though.  She's swimming in it, but it's really cool cause it was the dress that I was blessed in.  Yeah, that's right; retro.... or vintage.  One or the other.

Friday, July 1, 2011

Update

So I promise I'm still alive (and so is Nettie), I just haven't been able to think of anything interesting to blog about lately.  Also, the time that I have when I'm not feeding/holding/taking care of Nettie is spent either sleeping or just doing something mindless and lazy (I've watched a ton of Psych in the past couple weeks).

Nettie's blessing is this Sunday and hopefully it will all be ok.  My parents are coming in for the weekend, and Tucker's family will all be here as well (except for Sam).  There was a fairly significant piece of drama that happened last night that I'm sure will alter the "plans" that we had for this weekend with the family, but that's ok.  We're just glad that everyone is ok.  (I'll probably post more on this later, but I'm not sure how private the people involved want it to be).

For now though, enjoy this cute video of Nettie... although, all videos of her are cute. 

Monday, June 20, 2011

Random Video

So this video isn't of anything exciting, but I think it's cute.  It's just of one of the few times that Nettie is awake and not crying or eating during the day.  I also have a couple of her hiccuping, but I haven't uploaded them yet.  Maybe I'll get around to it.

Monday Picture

June 20, 2011

Here's this Monday's picture.  I think from now on I'll try to get her in basically the same pose.  And just for memory's sake: Nettie was not very happy most of today.  Slept for about 6 hours (longest stretch yet), and pooped like a billion times.... literally.  And since Tucker does pretty much all the diaper changes when he's home, he was not very happy.  But I laughed. :)

Thursday, June 16, 2011

A Few Frustrations

I definitely love being a mom, but the past couple days have been really hard.  I came down with some dang head cold thing that Tucker got while we were in the hospital, and so all that I've wanted to do is sleep.  Nettie was cooperating with this desire for about a day, but the past two days or so, she won't sleep anywhere but in my arms or laying on my chest.  This makes sleeping fairly uncomfortable for me because I have to prop myself up and then can't move the entire night either, leading to some annoying back and neck pain the following morning.

On top of all this, Nettie seems to have regressed a little bit with the whole nursing thing.  She'll start rooting around to eat, and then when said nipple (yes, I said nipple) is in her wide open mouth she'll do this bounce off my boob thing with her face and will open and close her mouth, but won't latch on and will then scream because she's not getting anything to eat. 

In the middle of the night when I try to feed her in my sickness and sleep-deprived zombie state, I/we end up soaking just about everything that both of us are wearing, and that's really annoying too, cause then we're both cold and I have to change us, and it makes more laundry, which is hard to do because we don't have a washer and dryer in our apartment, but have to go to the laundry facilities at our complex or lug it all to one of my sister-in-laws homes to use their machines, which I then feel bad about just because.

Hopefully this will only last a couple days and Nettie will go back to being the perfect baby that she was.  And I really, really, really hope she doesn't catch what I have right now......... that would not be fun at all.

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

A Picture Every Monday

I can't remember exactly who was telling me about this cute idea, but I liked it a lot and figured I could attempt to do it.  The deal is that you take a picture on the same day every week of your child for a year or however long to show their growth, etc.  Since Nettie was born on a Monday, that's the day that I'll use.

June 6, 2011


June 13, 2011

The picture from yesterday was taken during a photo shoot that my mother-in-law and sisters-in-law were kind enough to give to Tucker and I as a present.  This is the only one that I've seen so far, but I love it!  Soooo cute!

Little Miss Nettie Smith

So I got a surprising 9 hours of sleep last night (total, not in a row) and Nettie is asleep once again.  Figured I'd at least try to start this post.  Kind of hard to believe that we've had Nettie for almost a week now.  She's fit so perfectly into our lives, and to risk sounding cliche, it's like she's was always here.  Anyways... on with the story.

Our induction was scheduled for Sunday (June 5th) at 830pm.  On the instruction sheet that they gave me at my final doctor's appointment, it told us to call the hospital an hour before the set time to make sure that there was a bed available for me.  Neither Tucker or I thought this would be a problem because the two times that we'd been up at the hospital before (once for our tour, the second to be monitored for a little while) it had been fairly slow in the Labor and Delivery area.  We called anyways, and the girl I talked to asked if they could call us back because she needed to find out about availability from someone who was on break when we called.  That was fine with me.


We finished collecting our stuff and headed down to the car at 8 even though we still hadn't been called back.  I decided to call again as I walked to the dumpster to throw away some trash and while Tucker pulled the car around.  I spoke with the person that had been on break and (go figure) they didn't have any room for me.  Talk about a major disappointment.  She said that we would probably have to go in the next morning instead, but asked how late we were willing to go in that night, just in case something opened up.  I told her that it didn't really matter since we had been planning on being up the whole night anyways.

So, we went and got some hamburgers from Burger King (we had already started driving by the time I finished talking with the woman), which we probably wouldn't have normally done, but I hadn't eaten since noon-ish per my instructions, the nurse told me to go ahead and eat since they didn't know when I was going to be called in, and we didn't have any food in our apartment (sort of, nothing to make a meal out of at least).  Back at home, we decided to watch a little tv before I went to bed, but between 930 and 10 the nurse called and asked if we could come in at 1130 that night instead.  Um, duh.

When we got to the hospital, we had to check in at the emergency room because patient registration (where we would have gone during the daytime) was closed for construction.  Checked in, and made our way up to L&D.  When we got to the desk there, a nurse took us back to our room and started to ask all the normal questions.  By the time I had gotten changed and stuff signed it was close to midnight, and they needed to check my 'progress' to see if they would start me on pitocin or a balloon thingy (honestly can't remember the name of it) that they would put in my cervix to help me get started dilating.  I was only about 1cm, which wasn't much of an improvement from when they had checked me on Tuesday.  So in went the balloon.  They said that I should start feeling a little crampy (which I did), and so they would give me a pill to help me sleep.   I agreed to take the pill, thinking it would take like half an hour tops to get the dang thing, but didn't end up getting it until after 230ish am.

The next morning my new nurse woke me up at 6 to take a shower and to check to see if the balloon would come out easily (meaning that I had dilated to at least 3cm).  The balloon definitely came out, and I was between a 3 and a 4, completed effaced.  They got all my IVs started right around 645am and so now all we had to do was wait.

Around 1130am, they came to check me again and decided to break my water.  In doing this, we found out that little Nettie had already pooped for the first time because there was some staining to the fluid.  The only difference this really made was that they would have to check her briefly before allowing me to hold her right after she was born.  No big deal.  Up until this point though, I hadn't been uncomfortable or feeling any sort of pain, like, at all.  I remember thinking how easy being in labor was.  Little did I know that as soon as my water was broken, things would change.  I started to actually feel the contractions, and to me it seemed like they were coming like 3 minutes apart (I never actually timed them out though).  My parents and Jenna had arrived at the hospital by this point too, and whenever I started to have a contraction, my dad would let me squeeze his hand.  I went like this for about 15 minutes before I decided to call the nurse back in to tell her to start getting me ready to have an epidural.

So they started me on another bag of fluids that I had to drain before they would even call the doctor down.  They finally called him down around 1pm and by 105pm they had the IV in my back and the medicine going.  Ah, sweet relief!  I felt great again.  I dozed off and on for awhile (pretty sure that my family left to go do something else when they came to do the epidural), and they didn't really feel the need to check my progress for a few hours.  Around 440pm, though, the nurse came in and told me that she was going to turn the pitocin off because Nettie's heartbeat was starting to look a little bit questionable.  Nothing to worry about, but it was starting to look like it could become irregular.  They also gave me an oxygen mask to wear to see if that helped at all.

While the nurse was in the room turning off the one IV, I mentioned to her that I would sometimes feel pressure like I had to go to the bathroom.  So she called a doctor in to check me (and like 5 people came along, apparently they had all been at a delivery next door and decided to come; a couple of them were 'student' doctors though, so they were just observing).  They checked me, and lo and behold, I was completely dilated!  They had me try pushing a couple times (which I don't know if I was doing right cause all I could really feel was that pressure), and then they decided to let me sit for about another half hour before doing more pushing so that I didn't have to push for like an hour and so that Nettie could descend a little more on her own. 

I didn't really care that I would have to wait a little bit longer, but it was exciting that stuff was actually going to start happening soon.  My Dad left the room and we waited for about 15 minutes before I decided that the pressure (which was starting to strengthen and was really hard to ignore) was great enough that I had to call the nurse back in.  I definitely felt the need to push now.  So she sat down on the bed with me around 520pm, I'm sure thinking that we would probably be pushing for awhile because she didn't bother to call the doctor yet.

We started pushing.  It took me a couple of contractions to figure out exactly what to do because of the epidural, but about fifteen minutes later, the nurse got up to call the doctor.  We kept pushing, and I could definitely feel something coming out of me.  In just a few more pushes, Nettie's head was about half way out of me and my nurse told me not to push anymore.  I remember thinking that she was ridiculously stupid.  How the heck was I supposed to hold off on pushing when the baby was basically coming out of me on my own?  I kept telling her, "I need to push, I can't stop, I need to push," but she kind of ignored me.  I really couldn't stop myself from pushing though; it was physically impossible.

The doctor arrived just in time to wash her hands real quick and watch as Nettie came out into the nurse's hands (way to go, Doc) at 538pm.  Tucker cut the cord (I think), they checked her out, and then I was holding her.  My perfect, sweet, little baby.  She was here, and I couldn't have cared less that they were starting to stitch me up (I had a 3rd degree perennial tear because Nettie came so quickly).


In total, I pushed for about 20 minutes.  Apparently that's quick.  I'm just pro at pushing I guess, haha!  Both Jenna and my mom were able to be in the room with us as well when Nettie was born, which I think is kind special.

Now as far as naming her goes.... During the time that my family had been gone that afternoon, Tucker and I looked at the list of names that we liked and narrowed it down to three.  My favorite: Eleanor Janet.  Tucker's favorite: Emmeline Lynette.  And then a completely out of the blue name that we hadn't really discussed before: Lynette Meryl.  Tucker suggested it, saying that he thought it would make a pretty first name as well as a pretty middle name.  I actually kind of like it.  We both agree that if that name was used, we would not be calling her Lynn for short.  And we decided to pair Meryl with it (my little sister's middle name) because unfortunately, Lynette Janet didn't quite flow well enough for us.  At this point, we didn't decide for sure on a name because we both still wanted to see her first.  But I think that my mind was sort of already set on Lynette, and as soon as she came out, I was certain that that was her name.

Little Nettie weighed 8lbs 2oz and was 20 1/4 inches long.  When she popped out of me, she inhaled quicker than the nurse could suction out her mouth and nose (remember the meconium staining in my water), but she was screaming so well right after they checked her that they weren't concerned about that at all.

We got the chance to try breastfeeding while they were stitching me up, and Nettie latched on perfectly (and has ever since).  About an hour or so (I think, not really sure) after Nettie was born, my family all got to come back to the room to see her.  Lois and Stephanie had arrived as well and were able to see her.  When they came in, I asked if Tucker had told them her name yet (because he had been the one to go out and get them).  He hadn't.  So I told them, and immediately started to cry when I said her middle name and looked at Jenna (I'm kind of a softy).  I'm pretty sure that we caught Lois off guard with our name choice though (Lynette is her middle name), and the next morning when she came to visit I remember her asking if we like Meryl Lynette better, haha!  Lynette is definitely her name though.

The rest of the hospital stay was pretty easy though.  I was never really in any pain or discomfort from my stitches (still aren't actually), and so I never had to take anything stronger than Ibuprofen.  Poor Tucker though, due to lack of sleep the first couple nights that we were in the hospital, started to feel really crappy and got a sinus infection sort of thing.  Because of this, and the fact that Nettie did not like sleeping in the little tub they had in our room for her, I got a total of about 6 hours of sleep for the 3 nights/days that we were there.  Though, that hasn't really bothered me much either.

Also, holy crap, I am a milk making machine!  I know this is gross/tmi, but the second that I take my bra off to nurse or take a shower, I'm seriously dripping all over everything.  Kind of annoying.  But I shouldn't complain really, because Nettie has already passed her birth weight, and according to the lactation consult I talked to this morning, she's done it a week faster than most solely breastfed babies.  Go us!

Mostly she's just the best baby in the world.  She's adorable, and she sleeps really really good.  Lately (meaning the past two days) she's gone for 4-5 hour stretches before waking up, which is very nice for me and Tucker because we both seem to have gotten a head cold.  We also got some newborn pictures taken of Nettie (courtesy of my mother-in-law and two awesome sisters-in-law), so hopefully those will get edited soon so that I can show them off to everyone :).

But yeah.  Be jealous of my uber cute baby :D